file Micayla is bullied at school, please please help.

11 years 8 months ago #102439 by Andie
I don't have kids of my own, I was bullied in primary school (although not to the extend your daughter has been bullied!!) She sounds exactly like me... The smallest of hearts, cries if someone only talks loudly at you, would rather just be quiet that have a confrontation....

Don't go to the school and confront this bully yourself. My mom did that when I was in standard 3. It stopped the bullying, but opened up the channels for teasing right through the rest of primary school.

Obviously the principal already knows about the problem, because you mentioned that she has had a verbal warning already. Go see the principal and INSIST on this girl being asked to leave the school. There is something seriously wrong with the childs home life and she is probably acting out, but that does not mean that your child has to bear the brunt of it.

What if she cut her with those scissors? Or what if she has now caused serious harm to her tummy with that fist blow? No, I'm sorry!! If I were you I'd be on the phone to the principal today already and have this problem sorted out. And don't leave him alone until you are sure you got results.

Just my experience and opinion...

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11 years 8 months ago #102436 by Preni
You have a right to fear your childs safety...and you are not overreacting.

That childs parents need to be called to school. In fact I would have wanted that child expelled the very first time that she threatened your daughter with scissors.

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11 years 8 months ago #102434 by Kinderelomelo
Hi

i wouldn't think anything you did would be uncalled for. This child sounds violent and could be a threat not only ot your daughter but to other kids too. She needs to be taken out of the school and sent to a place where they can deal with her issues.

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11 years 8 months ago #102433 by crazylove
I will go the the school tomorrow and sort out the bully. The bully have some serious issue and if she dont go for therapy or councelling she cannot come back to the school>sorry it sound a bit nasty but i dont have time for bullies

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11 years 8 months ago #102423 by Enchanted Pixels
I am so upset. Micayla is bullied at school and teh bully has received a verbal warning. I have been told that if we ever have trouble with this child again, she will be asked to leave the school. Well, that may sound a bit drastic but I have had enough. The time she got the warning, this child has been saying she will kill Micayla, and she had scissors against Micayla's throat. Today, she cornered Micayla and pulled on her ponytail and hit her with a fist in the stomach. I am so terribly upset, I don't want to make an uncalled for scene, but I am at my wits end. I don't knwo what to do. I've sent Micayla to school with a canister of pepperspray out of desperation, and now this. My child is a big old softy who would rather suffer than stand up for herself. She does well at school, and has been on the Top ten academic list for her grade both quarters so far. She is now to scared to go to school.

What would you do? I feel like phoning the police and open an assualt case. Micayla is now complaining about her tummy being sore where she was hit.

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