It might be a bit rude to barge in here at this stage...But I hope that my 2 lines might give you hope!
I have unsubscribed to this thread because I have given up on trying (although I know we didn't try very long compared to others).
But I couldn't help but not share my very UNEXPECTED NEWS today for those who walked this journey with me for a while.
It seems as if the cliche is true (in my case)...It is when I have given away half my baby stuff that I have kept for a next baby, I have read a book (that I finished yesterday) about how having only one child is actually a good choice (or the benefits of one child), it is when I told my husband we should start looking into a vasectomy as this "waiting" is too stressful. I want to go on with my life knowing this is what I have to deal with and finish and klaar.....
So my period didn't come on it's punctual day 28 although I had hectic cramping as if it should come any second. This morning (Day 30)
I thought I should just "rule out" pregnancy - not that I thought there could be any chance since we only BD Day 7 and Day 23 (neither close to what I thought would be fertile periods) and the fact that I have given up hope and we don't "try" anymore...
To say I am in utter shock is an understatement.
I am having a million emotions going through me now.
I have just come back from drawing blood - waiting for the results, hopefully by this afternoon. Because of my previous ectopic I will have to draw blood again in 3 days time to confirm that the HCG levels have doubled nicely to rule out an ectopic.
so i got my period today and its an abnormally light flow and i am feeling so naar the whole time but home tests and blood tests are both negative, my gynea is back to the drawing board and has no clue what to do with me
Pregnancy confirmed 11/12/2014
EDD 20 Aug 2015
Preterm delivery 20/04/15
My beautiful babyboy was born at 520gr and lived for 40 minutes