Hi Debbievdm
I echo totally what the other moms said. For me personally, looking back I understand that my blues were more than that, and actually post-natal depression. I had most symptoms, but did
not have thoughts to harm my baby (which is one of the common symptoms apparently). Because of the lack of having that symptom, I convinced myself I don't have it. It is one of my biggest regrets not getting treatment. I fell pregnant again when my oldest was 8 months, it is only when my body's hormones went to preggy mode again that I started feeling better and realized what a disservice I did myself and my baby.
If you feel unsure whether it is the blues or PND, go and get yourself checked out. PND is not something to be ashamed of, or an indication that you are not a strong enough person.
All the best