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5 months 3 days ago #280708 by ayesha07
Zahrah I am so sorry for your loss hun, I've been there and know he devastation you must be experiencing. Its not an easy time for you and dont feel the need to share until you are ready, we will be here for you. 

You and hubby are in my prayers. 

In Islam we believe that child loss, miscarriage and still birth results in children of heaven, it is said that thos children will wait at the gates of heaven to ensure they enter heaven with there parents. I know it's no consolation but learning about that when I went through it brought me some sense of peace. 

Message when ever you are ready to talk hun

Pregnancy confirmed 11/12/2014

EDD 20 Aug 2015

Preterm delivery 20/04/15
23 weeks

My beautiful babyboy was born at 520gr and lived for 40 minutes

He will always be the angel of my heart

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5 months 3 days ago #280709 by Madie1
Replied by Madie1 on topic Re:Re:Re:Re:Due august 2019
So sorry to hear aboit your loss Zarah, im thinking about you and hubby.

How is everyone doing? 
I had my 20 week detailed scan today and everything looks good, baby just wanted to sleep during the appointment but just so glad that he/she is growing and the hearbeat is strong. Seeing my doctor again on 25 april, i had my 30 this past weekend and it was a great family affair and suprise to everyone when they saw the bump.

Hope everyone has a great evening

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5 months 3 days ago #280710 by StellaK
Replied by StellaK on topic Re:Re:Re:Re:Due august 2019
Zarah, my heart is just broken into a million pieces reading this. this is just devastating. 
i am so extremely sorry. whishing there was words that can provide some comfort.

if you feel up to it, there is an amazing group on Facabook - Rainbow of Hope SA  www.facebook.com/groups/1668514283364617/
this is an amazing support group for ladies dealing with the loss of children.

sending you so much love and you are in my prayers

me 35, DH 39

TTC #1 since Oct 2012
March 2013 BFP, May 2013 MC at 10 weeks (Blighted Ovum)
6 Aug 2013 BFP, Gerhard gebore 8 April 2014
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#2 BFP 3 Jan, Franswa gebore 8 Aug 2015
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#3 TTC from Apr 2018
MC Oct 2018
BFP 23 Nov 2018
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4 months 1 week ago #280719 by StellaK
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Hey ladies,

how are you all doing?

Zarah, you are in my prayers. hoping you get loads of help and support.

thing are doing ok here. lots of aches and pains and i am huge already. I can just laugh at peoples reactions when i say im only halfway and not ready to pop

me 35, DH 39

TTC #1 since Oct 2012
March 2013 BFP, May 2013 MC at 10 weeks (Blighted Ovum)
6 Aug 2013 BFP, Gerhard gebore 8 April 2014
[link=https://lilypie.com] [/link]

#2 BFP 3 Jan, Franswa gebore 8 Aug 2015
[link=https://lilypie.com] [/link]

#3 TTC from Apr 2018
MC Oct 2018
BFP 23 Nov 2018
[link=https://lilypie.com] [/link]

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4 months 1 week ago #280720 by ayesha07
Morning ladies 

@zahrah how younholding up hun

@stella
I'm with you in the bump, my family think I'm either lying about my due date or that im having twins lol the hospital even asked me when I booked my bed 

@madie how are you hun?

Afm I'm 23 weeks 4 days according to my last scan n peanuts become alot more active, I've hit the gestation at when I lost my little boy and its heartbreaking but I'm doing my best to bring this little one home. 

Quick question ladies, have any of you started having extremely vivid dreams? Mine feel so real its scary

Pregnancy confirmed 11/12/2014

EDD 20 Aug 2015

Preterm delivery 20/04/15
23 weeks

My beautiful babyboy was born at 520gr and lived for 40 minutes

He will always be the angel of my heart

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3 months 3 weeks ago #280723 by Madie1
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Hey everyone

Its been quiet here? How is everyone doing?

@ayesha im doing great, at the 26weeks mark and baby is kicking up a storm. Had a bit of a scare 2 weeks ago that made me go to emergency unit but everything went well.seeing the doc agaon at 30 weeks, do you guys have a birth plan yet? Im really opting for a natural birth with my dvt history but will also find out what the doc thinks.

We will be starting this month with the Baby room as i want everything done by end of june, 

Hope you have a great evening

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3 months 2 weeks ago #280728 by ayesha07
Hi ladies 

@madie, if you dont mind me asking what caused the scare? Glad you and bubs are ok. Ooh exciting news about the nursery, we just finish buying everything for this peanut and starting to paint the nursery today so I'm excited 

I'm 27 weeks and this little guy is kicking up a storm. I
Enjoying every minute of it lol. I have an app in 4 days and I'm suppose to have my birth plan aswell but all I know is I want natural unmedicated so good luck to me lol. I actually cant wait for my app, I have carpal tunnel or tendonitis for the past 2 weeks, started wearing a wrist brace which helps at night but during the day my hand is basically useless. Hoping this passes with my pregnancy. 

Counting down, my stitch removal is 9 weeks and then I'm on cervix watch so time is flying by hows everyone doing

Pregnancy confirmed 11/12/2014

EDD 20 Aug 2015

Preterm delivery 20/04/15
23 weeks

My beautiful babyboy was born at 520gr and lived for 40 minutes

He will always be the angel of my heart

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