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8 years 2 months ago #212634 by MissesMom
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Ok, so my sister is getting married really soon! She has asked me to be her maid of honour and has 3 other bridesmaids.

So we thought that we would put some effort into getting to know each other, so its not just us meeting up on the day.
So we arranged a pizza and movies evening at my place, it was lovely, we watched "Bridesmaids" and chatted had some laughs and kida went over what we would do for the kitchen tea
We then arranged another meet at a resturant on a sunday after noon. Well 2 of the girls didn't pitch, and the 1 came 90min late (2 of the girls dont have drivers licenses, so this makes it hard for them)

Anyways, so we bbm to arrange another meet and the one chick comes back rather rudely asking why are we bothering, we've already sorted out the details for the kithcen tea.
Anyways, so 3 of us then arrange to meet up - and only 1 rocks up. Sigh...
Still I'm not deterred, we arrange a tuesday night meet at beefcakes - which is where the kitchen tea will be held - thought it would be a good idea for them to also see the joint and get a feel for it before the actual night.
Anyways, so the 1 doesnt even reply to the invite, but anyways I book for 4 people (my mom is going to join) and then yesterday she sends us a message asking if she can bring her husband and 3 year old tonight!! I'm sorry I had a serious "WTF" moment!! So I reply telling her that I had already booked for 4, and anyways it is not an appropriate place for a child, or a man for that matter - it is a gay joint where ladies can go and have fun without really being bugged by drunk men.

So she says "Why. I need help chels is sick and it seems all she wants is me. It sounds like she is sore and we are giving her milk to drink. What do I do.
I am sorry then there is no way I can go. I am sorry to let you down the night before, but it is during the week and chelsea is sick."

Now I'm sorry firstly if your child is sick, WTH would you want to take her out at night to a adult joint?

She has also not bothered to book her appointment with the dressmaker yet.
I just wish my sister had never chosen her, as she doesn't seems to be at all interested in doing anything!

We are also having a day where we are going to make a banner to welcome the bride and groom at the airport, and play around with hairstyles etc, and she hasnt bothered to respond to that either.
I just think she was asked and should take the responsibility seriously.
Am I just being overly dramatic?

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8 years 2 months ago #212697 by Nayeela
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This sounds like a horrible situation!

I hope she either comes to the party and help out with the prep work or she get out of the original agreement.

Shame! so sorry to hear that. Its better to nip these in the bud now than later when it is too late. I would have spoken to my sister if that was my situation and let her know my concerns.

Hope you come right!

Island Princess,
Mom to Kamilah born at Constantiaberg Medi Clinic, Cape Town - 18th of June 2009
Missed Miscarriage Survivor, 1 sleeping angel - 28th of June 2007

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8 years 2 months ago #212701 by Yaz
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To answer your question in the subject line: yes! It clearly is self-defense :) What a cow!

Cameron (*08.08.2009) is watching his little sister from above.

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8 years 2 months ago #212726 by julz
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Legally no. Seriously she is not worth it!!!!!!! I honestly know how important these things are to you so it is obviously upsetting when someone has so little regard for others, but people like her do not change.

Mom of Dylan and Partner to Joerg. We live in the Beautiful Pringle Bay which is along the Whale coast, Cape.


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8 years 2 months ago #212742 by MissesMom
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I know I should just let it go and move on, but I so want everything to be more than perfect for my sister. And because she is in Oz, we are the ones really dealing with the wedding, and I wont address it with her cause I dont want to upset her in anyway.

I will just try and make this as great as I can, and avoid weilding sharp objects around her at the wedding...

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8 years 2 months ago #212824 by MissesMom
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Well we had a total blast last night! The other girls agree it is the prfect place to finish off the kitchen tea.
And one of the Bridesmaids with me won a prize at bitchy bingo!
Now cannot wait for the day and that other chick can get knotted!!

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8 years 2 months ago #212884 by Liz
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Glad u enjoyed it! Respect for putting everything in to make it as special possible for your sis. The other girl sounds like a cow and she don't deserve to be a bridesmaid. If she doesn't want to be one, she could have said so.

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